“Hurt people hurt people.” (Anonymous). And it goes without saying that healed people also heal people. When you have healed or are on a journey of healing, there is a sweet aroma of healing, inner peace around you. Even your utterances have a sweet aroma to them. “Kind words are like honey-sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.” (Proverbs 16:24). As Gen. Z’s like to say, good vibes. You exude a very peaceful and self-assured energy around you.
On the contrary, when you are hurt, you ‘bleed’ on people. The energy around you is probably just off. Your vibes are just off. As much as you may not think that you exude a negative energy, you might just be.
How then does one improve their personal aura to be genuinely warm, self-assured and safe to be around? You heal, you go for therapy, you read books that help you pin point the areas that you need to heal, then you embark on that healing journey. Journaling is also a good place to start. Forgiving people who have wronged you, or even yourself when you let yourself down. Asking for forgiveness where you have wronged another person. Dealing with issues like resentment, anger etc.
Inner healing is the greatest surety in the whole wide world.
