Adulting is a game of winning. Most of us are in it to prove to anyone who cares that we have it under control. So we wake up each day and keep pushing. We drown in the responsibilities and the goals we set for ourselves. And as if none of this is enough, we also try to please society too. We give the remaining shred of strength to try and fit in. As hard as it is, we try to please society, which isn’t even a literal part of our lives. What nobody tells us is that it is okay to be overwhelmed by all of it. It is okay to want help. There is nothing wrong with admitting it’s not easy. While we think that holding it all is strength, it isn’t. It makes us weak,it breaks every single resilience, and it makes us bitter. Asking for help makes us stronger; it gives us avenues to rebuild. Here is to accepting that we don’t need to drown to be strong. #rebuild
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